So far, all of my kids absolutely love soccer. I secretly love this as I think soccer rocks! After a long day, Damien and I thought it might be fun (and crazy) to surprise the older three kids with a trip to a San Jose Earthquakes game. Just as we thought, they were beyond excited! Michael loves to play FIFA soccer on the Xbox and knows a lot of the players names from it. He thinks that we are super stars because we went to SCU with Joe Cannon who used to be the goal keeper for the Earthquakes. Anything associated with soccer- according to Michael is awesome!
We decided to keep Emily home because it was just a recipe for disaster. The game started at 7:30 p.m. and she would have gotten too tired and dangerous to enjoy any of it. Right now, the Earthquakes play at SCU which is really cool. As Damien was walking up to the entrance, he saw a friend of ours named Joao. Years ago, Damien game him tickets to a USA vs. Brasil World Cup game which we couldn't go to. Since then, he idolizes Damien! Anyway, he saw Damien and gave him two tickets that were right at midfield. Score! Damien just needed to buy two more for a spectacular view of the game!
The kids loved the game so much. They even got to exchange high fives with the players at halftime! They all got fun little key chains and little soccer balls, too! Damien, of course, loaded them up with cotton candy, kettle corn, and other sweet treats. It was a night to remember, for sure. Sitting under the bright lights with their Daddy is sure to be a highlight of their summer.
Friday, August 19, 2011
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Michael's GIANT Cameo!
Michael was invited to his friend Jacob's birthday party which was going to be at the San Jose Giants game! He was beyond excited and was thrilled that Matthew and Damien would be able to go with him to the party/barbecue.
Claire, Emily and were at home when the phone rang. I answered it and heard "Lisa?", Damien said out of breath. "Turn on the TV and find the San Jose Giants game and record it. Michael and his friends are about to be interviewed!", he said. I was able to find it and we all sat and watched for Michael to come on the screen. Nothing. For about ten minutes, nothing. We were so hungry and I wanted to fix the kids food but I didn't want to miss Michael! Then it happened. I saw him bare chested with the letter S on his chest! He was the S of his friends creative attention grabbing G-I-A-N-T-S! Claire was howling, literally howling. She couldn't believe it! She knew all the boys that were on the television with Michael and she thought it was awesome! We could even see Damien in the background who eventually put Matthew on his shoulders so he could get a piece of the action!
The lady interviewed the boys and asked it they were freezing and of course, Michael yelled no. He told her during the interview that they were here celebrating their friend's birthday party! She then gave them the name, 'The Giant Boys'. Hilarious!!! We called Damien and sent him a screen grab of the recording and they loved it. Not ten minutes later did I get another call to turn on the TV again because Michael and his friends were going to be dancing on the field!
We flipped on the TV again and there Michael was, shaking his booty. Were the other boys shaking their booty? No, just my kid. Couldn't have been prouder either! They all looked adorable. Michael has never been one to shy away from the spotlight and this situation wasn't any different. He started doing his own version of break dancing and the crowd was eating it up! He even got his chest signed by the San Jose Giants mascot, Gigante! This is certainly something that I know Michael won't soon forget. Go San Jose Giants and the Giant Boys!
Claire, Emily and were at home when the phone rang. I answered it and heard "Lisa?", Damien said out of breath. "Turn on the TV and find the San Jose Giants game and record it. Michael and his friends are about to be interviewed!", he said. I was able to find it and we all sat and watched for Michael to come on the screen. Nothing. For about ten minutes, nothing. We were so hungry and I wanted to fix the kids food but I didn't want to miss Michael! Then it happened. I saw him bare chested with the letter S on his chest! He was the S of his friends creative attention grabbing G-I-A-N-T-S! Claire was howling, literally howling. She couldn't believe it! She knew all the boys that were on the television with Michael and she thought it was awesome! We could even see Damien in the background who eventually put Matthew on his shoulders so he could get a piece of the action!
The lady interviewed the boys and asked it they were freezing and of course, Michael yelled no. He told her during the interview that they were here celebrating their friend's birthday party! She then gave them the name, 'The Giant Boys'. Hilarious!!! We called Damien and sent him a screen grab of the recording and they loved it. Not ten minutes later did I get another call to turn on the TV again because Michael and his friends were going to be dancing on the field!
We flipped on the TV again and there Michael was, shaking his booty. Were the other boys shaking their booty? No, just my kid. Couldn't have been prouder either! They all looked adorable. Michael has never been one to shy away from the spotlight and this situation wasn't any different. He started doing his own version of break dancing and the crowd was eating it up! He even got his chest signed by the San Jose Giants mascot, Gigante! This is certainly something that I know Michael won't soon forget. Go San Jose Giants and the Giant Boys!
Monday, August 15, 2011
Matthewisms
These are just a few gems that have come out of my Matthew lately. Seriously, the kid is pure comedy. However, just yesterday Matthew told Damien that he wasn't funny. Damien asked him why he thought that! Matthew responded, "Because Michael told me I wasn't." Oh, boy. Here comes the big brother/little brother battle! So, for the time being, I want to remember these funny little phrases.
Marley and Me: Marlene and Me
Two Player: Two Claire
Yogi Bear: Lugi Bear
Bus Your Plate: Blush Your Plate
Yellow: Lellow
Obstacle Course: Officer's Course
Cleopatra: Claire-o-patra
Monopoly: Monocoly
Ninja: Minja
Pina Colada: Pina Koala
Marley and Me: Marlene and Me
Two Player: Two Claire
Yogi Bear: Lugi Bear
Bus Your Plate: Blush Your Plate
Yellow: Lellow
Obstacle Course: Officer's Course
Cleopatra: Claire-o-patra
Monopoly: Monocoly
Ninja: Minja
Pina Colada: Pina Koala
Saturday, August 13, 2011
Two Minutes
Mom: Emily, I love you so much.
Emily: I love you two minutes.
Mom: (laughing) How much do you love me?
Emily: Two minutes.
I love that she came up with her own measurement of love. Even though it isn't the traditional measurement most of us use to show how much we love one another, it is somehow perfect coming from my little Emily.
Update: Someone taught her that five is more than two. So now when you ask her how much she loves you, she'll answer, "Five minutes."
Emily: I love you two minutes.
Mom: (laughing) How much do you love me?
Emily: Two minutes.
I love that she came up with her own measurement of love. Even though it isn't the traditional measurement most of us use to show how much we love one another, it is somehow perfect coming from my little Emily.
Update: Someone taught her that five is more than two. So now when you ask her how much she loves you, she'll answer, "Five minutes."
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Meeting Pascale!
We got back from Seattle at 10:00 p.m. last night and were on the road to Healdsburg by 11:00 a.m. today to meet baby Pascale and celebrate Lani's birthday. It was a wild turn around but sometimes you just have to go for it! As expected, baby Pascale is just beautiful and so is her Mommy. Man, I wish I could look half as good as she does after I have a baby!
We were able to meet Pascale's Daddy, Tom and he is really nice and funny. Between Heavenly and Tom, this little baby is going to have a huge personality! It was precious to see Emily's reaction to Pascale. She couldn't believe she was so tiny. She would stare and stare at her and admire everything about her. She really tried hard to understand how the baby, who used to be in Heavenly's tummy, came out!
My other three kids thought she was absolutely precious. I loved seeing the genuine love they had for their new baby cousin. Lani had a fun birthday party where she made the most amazing Thai noodle salad. It was amazing! It was a great night and certainly worth the drive and re-packing to stay the night with Damien's family. And who could pass up Marlene's Famous French Toast with Bacon first thing in the morning?
Welcome to the huge Swendsen family, Pascale!
We were able to meet Pascale's Daddy, Tom and he is really nice and funny. Between Heavenly and Tom, this little baby is going to have a huge personality! It was precious to see Emily's reaction to Pascale. She couldn't believe she was so tiny. She would stare and stare at her and admire everything about her. She really tried hard to understand how the baby, who used to be in Heavenly's tummy, came out!
My other three kids thought she was absolutely precious. I loved seeing the genuine love they had for their new baby cousin. Lani had a fun birthday party where she made the most amazing Thai noodle salad. It was amazing! It was a great night and certainly worth the drive and re-packing to stay the night with Damien's family. And who could pass up Marlene's Famous French Toast with Bacon first thing in the morning?
Welcome to the huge Swendsen family, Pascale!
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
So Long, Farewell.
The time has come to say our goodbyes. They are never easy. Even after so many years of practice. We had an amazing two weeks with my family. They were so gracious in letting us stay and bring utter chaos into their lives! We were fed, taken care of, and treated to so many special treats- I cannot even begin to list them here (but I'll try)!
We explored, relaxed, worked out (yes, my Mom rocked Insanity), saw bunnies in my parents yard, tried out new and exciting restaurants, were treated to ice cream on the blvd. by Nonna, the kids brushed up on their gardening skills, and shopped for back to school clothes for the kids.
Jill let Emily try out roller skates on the hard wood (I couldn't watch), we got to see Laura's Special Olympics team play the Redmond Police Department, we went on many long, beautiful walks, ran through the sprinklers and played in Grandpa's fountain.
We went to the Bellevue Arts and Crafts Fair, my kids helped Nonna sew sun hats for all of her grandkids, fed the duckies multiple times, Nonna took the older three kids to a theater production of The Wizard of Oz, and so much more.
The point is, we always have so much fun when we visit Nonna, Grandpa and the rest of the family. We love you so much and live for these long visits in the summer. Can't wait until next summer!
We explored, relaxed, worked out (yes, my Mom rocked Insanity), saw bunnies in my parents yard, tried out new and exciting restaurants, were treated to ice cream on the blvd. by Nonna, the kids brushed up on their gardening skills, and shopped for back to school clothes for the kids.
Jill let Emily try out roller skates on the hard wood (I couldn't watch), we got to see Laura's Special Olympics team play the Redmond Police Department, we went on many long, beautiful walks, ran through the sprinklers and played in Grandpa's fountain.
We went to the Bellevue Arts and Crafts Fair, my kids helped Nonna sew sun hats for all of her grandkids, fed the duckies multiple times, Nonna took the older three kids to a theater production of The Wizard of Oz, and so much more.
The point is, we always have so much fun when we visit Nonna, Grandpa and the rest of the family. We love you so much and live for these long visits in the summer. Can't wait until next summer!
Tuesday, August 09, 2011
Saint Claire's Day!
We celebrated Saint Claire's Day a few days early because we would already be back in San Jose on the actual day of her celebration (August 11). All my kids love their Saint Days and Claire was just overflowing with excitement this year!
Claire went with Grandpa to Baskin and Robbins to pick out her cake, which I know means a lot to her. Honest to God, she came back with the BIGGEST smile on her face! After dinner, we all gathered in the kitchen to celebrate Clairey and her special day!
She couldn't wait to open her gifts. Grandpa really got her some special things this year. First, was a Seattle Sounders jersey! Claire is just about to start soccer so she was literally over the moon over this gift. Claire from Seattle . . . gets a jersey from Seattle! Next, Grandpa knows that Claire loves shoes. He got her an adorable pair of Sketchers slip ons. It was a great day and I thank my Dad for doing this for my kids. They certainly love it and by the look on his face, he loves it too.
Claire went with Grandpa to Baskin and Robbins to pick out her cake, which I know means a lot to her. Honest to God, she came back with the BIGGEST smile on her face! After dinner, we all gathered in the kitchen to celebrate Clairey and her special day!
She couldn't wait to open her gifts. Grandpa really got her some special things this year. First, was a Seattle Sounders jersey! Claire is just about to start soccer so she was literally over the moon over this gift. Claire from Seattle . . . gets a jersey from Seattle! Next, Grandpa knows that Claire loves shoes. He got her an adorable pair of Sketchers slip ons. It was a great day and I thank my Dad for doing this for my kids. They certainly love it and by the look on his face, he loves it too.
Monday, August 08, 2011
Lake Chelan
It's that time of year again! Lake Chelan! I swear, it is something the kids talk about at least once a week. It can be the dead of winter and one of them will bring up Chelan. I've been going to Lake Chelan since I was young and I love that my kids have been doing the same, too! We had so much fun last year with all four kids and were really looking forward to this year, too!
We stayed in the same hotel, Grandview by the Lake, but this time we stayed in a part of the hotel where there are privately owned units. These people who own the units rent them out during the summer so it is more of a condo-type feel. No room service or daily cleanings. The room is yours for the duration of your stay! In a lot of ways we like this better. Sure, we had to clean a tad bit more but there was no one interrupting the flow of your day!
The car ride over there was pretty quick. I think it only took door to door 3 1/2 hours! Emily didn't nap which wasn't too great but we survived and that is all that mattered! As soon as we pulled in, the kids wanted to go in the pool and the lake. Surprisingly, they wanted to go straight into the lake! Emily and Matthew were in life jackets so we felt really safe about all of the kids situations. Down the slide they went, one at a time, and started off the vacation right!
We spent the entire first day in the sun. Into the lake, out of the lake. Into the pool, out of the pool. And the cycle just repeated itself over and over and over! It was a blast! The kids were having such a great time and it felt exactly how I imagine summer should feel. We barbecued the first night and it was just the perfect end to a perfect day.
Day number two, was much like day number one. The one exception was that it was Jill's Birthday! We swam most of the day and then had a great birthday dinner for her by the lake. Jake had gotten all the kids candy toilets. That's right. Candy toilets. The plunger was a lollipop that fit perfectly into the toilet with powdered candy. They were all hyper after that and hit the sack without any problems!
After dinner, all six of us swam out to a floating dock. It was here where we taught Michael and Claire how to do a back dive! They did awesome until Michael landed wrong in the water and started crying followed by Claire getting into back dive position and then basically dropping back first onto the dock. Time to go in and call it a day! I would like to add that by the end of the trip, Natalie did her first ever back dive, which she said she would never be able to do! It was awesome!
The following day, we got up early and went to church. We did a quick Starbucks run and then headed back to the hotel to change for the water park! Slidewaters is so much fun! I know for sure that it holds a special place in all of our hearts and we just love it there! We were anxious to see how Emily would do this year as she would be big enough to actually ride the rides. Holy crazy lady! She loved it more than I can describe!
Matthew felt like such a big guy and was so happy to be able to go on the big rides alone. He did ride in our laps on a coupleof the bigger rides but I am pretty sure it was out of pity. The kid loved it!
Michael and Claire had so much fun but their highlight had a lot to do with the tube ride. My Mom took Emily and Matthew and told Damien and me to go with Michael, Claire, Natalie and her friend, Claire on the ride together. It was out of this world fun! Since we were young we've decided that the way to win on this ride was to be the last one down the last slide and into the pool. There are a series of slides which end of dumping you into these little pools. Then onto another slide and into another pool. There are about five slides and we all try and kick, push, shove each other down and it leads to a lot of near accidents and laughter. Well, this time- my Claire had to go down the last slide sans tube. Michael came down and hit her tube so hard that it popped her tube our from underneath her and left her standing and wondering what to do next. The final time we rode the ride, I ended up crashing down into the last wading pool, being flung from off of my tube, and going down the last slide head first. All the while not knowing what direction was up or down. It was frightening but also hilarious, too. My Mom and the rest of our group was actually watching it as it all unfolded. Priceless. Too bad we didn't get it on video!!
We celebrated Morganday's birthday that night after the water park. We swam at the pool until dinner arrived poolside. My kids begged and begged to get back in the water. I couldn't believe they weren't a little tired of it yet! There is a really cool slide at the hotel. It looks like a giant rock slide and the kids are totally drawn to it. Problem is- if you don't go down the slide with a tube, you almost have to scoot off and it is a really rough texture. Not sure who the engineer of this slide was but I want him/her to reimburse me for the three swim suits that had holes in the butts when we left and had to be thrown out! No joke. Also, just for memory's sake- Damien might have thrown Natalie into the pool while she was wearing clothes (not a bathing suit). She might have also had her cell phone in her pocket. Discuss.
On our last morning, after coffee of course, we packed up and went down to the pool for one last hurrah. We ate all of the food we had left over in our fridges and just tried to soak up the last bit of sun before we headed home. While eating lunch, Claire found and orange that when peeled, had another orange in it. You would have thought she had won the lottery!!!
All four of my kids were crying as we got in the car to leave. Lake Chelan, you are loved. Hopefully, we will see you again next year!
We stayed in the same hotel, Grandview by the Lake, but this time we stayed in a part of the hotel where there are privately owned units. These people who own the units rent them out during the summer so it is more of a condo-type feel. No room service or daily cleanings. The room is yours for the duration of your stay! In a lot of ways we like this better. Sure, we had to clean a tad bit more but there was no one interrupting the flow of your day!
The car ride over there was pretty quick. I think it only took door to door 3 1/2 hours! Emily didn't nap which wasn't too great but we survived and that is all that mattered! As soon as we pulled in, the kids wanted to go in the pool and the lake. Surprisingly, they wanted to go straight into the lake! Emily and Matthew were in life jackets so we felt really safe about all of the kids situations. Down the slide they went, one at a time, and started off the vacation right!
We spent the entire first day in the sun. Into the lake, out of the lake. Into the pool, out of the pool. And the cycle just repeated itself over and over and over! It was a blast! The kids were having such a great time and it felt exactly how I imagine summer should feel. We barbecued the first night and it was just the perfect end to a perfect day.
Day number two, was much like day number one. The one exception was that it was Jill's Birthday! We swam most of the day and then had a great birthday dinner for her by the lake. Jake had gotten all the kids candy toilets. That's right. Candy toilets. The plunger was a lollipop that fit perfectly into the toilet with powdered candy. They were all hyper after that and hit the sack without any problems!
After dinner, all six of us swam out to a floating dock. It was here where we taught Michael and Claire how to do a back dive! They did awesome until Michael landed wrong in the water and started crying followed by Claire getting into back dive position and then basically dropping back first onto the dock. Time to go in and call it a day! I would like to add that by the end of the trip, Natalie did her first ever back dive, which she said she would never be able to do! It was awesome!
The following day, we got up early and went to church. We did a quick Starbucks run and then headed back to the hotel to change for the water park! Slidewaters is so much fun! I know for sure that it holds a special place in all of our hearts and we just love it there! We were anxious to see how Emily would do this year as she would be big enough to actually ride the rides. Holy crazy lady! She loved it more than I can describe!
Matthew felt like such a big guy and was so happy to be able to go on the big rides alone. He did ride in our laps on a coupleof the bigger rides but I am pretty sure it was out of pity. The kid loved it!
Michael and Claire had so much fun but their highlight had a lot to do with the tube ride. My Mom took Emily and Matthew and told Damien and me to go with Michael, Claire, Natalie and her friend, Claire on the ride together. It was out of this world fun! Since we were young we've decided that the way to win on this ride was to be the last one down the last slide and into the pool. There are a series of slides which end of dumping you into these little pools. Then onto another slide and into another pool. There are about five slides and we all try and kick, push, shove each other down and it leads to a lot of near accidents and laughter. Well, this time- my Claire had to go down the last slide sans tube. Michael came down and hit her tube so hard that it popped her tube our from underneath her and left her standing and wondering what to do next. The final time we rode the ride, I ended up crashing down into the last wading pool, being flung from off of my tube, and going down the last slide head first. All the while not knowing what direction was up or down. It was frightening but also hilarious, too. My Mom and the rest of our group was actually watching it as it all unfolded. Priceless. Too bad we didn't get it on video!!
We celebrated Morganday's birthday that night after the water park. We swam at the pool until dinner arrived poolside. My kids begged and begged to get back in the water. I couldn't believe they weren't a little tired of it yet! There is a really cool slide at the hotel. It looks like a giant rock slide and the kids are totally drawn to it. Problem is- if you don't go down the slide with a tube, you almost have to scoot off and it is a really rough texture. Not sure who the engineer of this slide was but I want him/her to reimburse me for the three swim suits that had holes in the butts when we left and had to be thrown out! No joke. Also, just for memory's sake- Damien might have thrown Natalie into the pool while she was wearing clothes (not a bathing suit). She might have also had her cell phone in her pocket. Discuss.
On our last morning, after coffee of course, we packed up and went down to the pool for one last hurrah. We ate all of the food we had left over in our fridges and just tried to soak up the last bit of sun before we headed home. While eating lunch, Claire found and orange that when peeled, had another orange in it. You would have thought she had won the lottery!!!
All four of my kids were crying as we got in the car to leave. Lake Chelan, you are loved. Hopefully, we will see you again next year!
Thursday, August 04, 2011
Welcome Baby Pascale!!!
We have a new niece! Beautiful Pascale Ava entered this big, big world today! We are so proud of Heavenly. She has been so strong throughout her whole pregnancy and all of us are so happy for her that her daughter has arrived! She was due to arrive on our anniversary but decided to come a few days later. We are in Washington now, but we can't wait to meet her when we get back home!
My GREAT Grandma
I love my Grandma so much. As far back as I can remember, she has played a very wonderful, loving, and supportive role in my life. I have such amazing memories of being a child at her house. It was a wonderland of sorts. I loved the piano, her yard, her kitchen, her movable dishwasher, overnights, her pantry next to the kitchen table, the Easter egg hunts in the family room for little chocolate eggs, playing Mille Bornes, picking Italian plums straight from the tree in the yard, playing at the school across the street, and riding the huge branches in the backyard. It was so much fun!
I tell my kids stories about my Grandma all of the time. I want them to know how incredible their Great Grandmother is! We got a chance to visit her this trip and we had such a great time. The kids insisted on bringing sugar cookies like last time even though Grandma had made these amazing cookies that had carrots in them. To say we were stuffed when we left is an understatement! We talked and played for a long time and I have to say the highlight for me was watching Emily and Grandma play catch. Emily was hurling the ball so fast at my Grandma and she caught it every time. My older kids thought it was hysterical, too. We had a great time visiting my Grandma. She is truly phenomenal and I can't wait to see her again next trip!
I tell my kids stories about my Grandma all of the time. I want them to know how incredible their Great Grandmother is! We got a chance to visit her this trip and we had such a great time. The kids insisted on bringing sugar cookies like last time even though Grandma had made these amazing cookies that had carrots in them. To say we were stuffed when we left is an understatement! We talked and played for a long time and I have to say the highlight for me was watching Emily and Grandma play catch. Emily was hurling the ball so fast at my Grandma and she caught it every time. My older kids thought it was hysterical, too. We had a great time visiting my Grandma. She is truly phenomenal and I can't wait to see her again next trip!
Tuesday, August 02, 2011
Nana Banana
Our anniversary grounded us and made us feel very blessed. We had planned to go and see my Nana the following day and were very excited to see her and give her a big hug and a kiss! She is such a strong force in our family. All of us feel so incredibly bonded to her. I feel so blessed having her in my life and I know the entire extended family feels the same way!
My kids look forward to seeing her on each of our trips. They not only love to see their Nana, but they also love the kitty that lives on her floor. Sometimes I wish they knew my Nana when she was younger. The personality, the fight, the cooking, the love she gave, and the singing. It would have been amazing for them to see all of that. Damien told Nana that the day before was our twelfth anniversary. Nana turned to Damien and said, "I bet Lisa is still in charge. She's always in charge." We all went into hysterics! Hey, what can I say?
We love you Nana and were so happy to be able to see you. Keep smiling. You're one of the most amazing people I have ever met!
My kids look forward to seeing her on each of our trips. They not only love to see their Nana, but they also love the kitty that lives on her floor. Sometimes I wish they knew my Nana when she was younger. The personality, the fight, the cooking, the love she gave, and the singing. It would have been amazing for them to see all of that. Damien told Nana that the day before was our twelfth anniversary. Nana turned to Damien and said, "I bet Lisa is still in charge. She's always in charge." We all went into hysterics! Hey, what can I say?
We love you Nana and were so happy to be able to see you. Keep smiling. You're one of the most amazing people I have ever met!
Monday, August 01, 2011
It's Been An Amazing Twelve Years
Every year it seems more and more surreal that I have been married to the same amazingly, wonderful man for twelve years. I suppose if I did the math more often and realized that I am now 35 and I met him when I was 19, it makes sense. Before I was married, if I heard about a couple celebrating their ten, fifteen, and twenty year anniversary- I thought, "Wow, how do they do it?" Well, we are doing it and this is our formula.
Never give up on one another. Take the time to listen, not just talk. Have your partner be your best friend. Make sure you laugh together throughout the day. When times get tough or just seem utterly ridiculous, find the silver lining . . . it will make a great story someday. Respect one another. Try not to take things too seriously. Encourage your partner to do something for themselves (sports, go out with friends, exercise). Make sure you get away without the kids a few times a year. Live young. Talk about the past and remember life as it used to be. Dream about your future and all that it will hold! Don't go into an argument trying to win. Instead, try going into an argument and working on understanding one another better. Show your kids how much you love each other. They will want that for themselves one day. Play pranks on each other. Go to sleep at the same time. Always kiss each other good night and say I love you before you go to sleep. Value all that makes your partner who they are. And above all- love unconditionally. This is what works for us.
Damien and I are ridiculously nostalgic. We love to talk about our courtship. Hands down, it was one of the greatest times of my life. I will never forget the feeling of falling in love and what a wonderful ride that was. I loved when I thought for the first time- this could last forever! I am so lucky to have met Damien when I did. Neither of us were in college just to meet a husband/wife, but we found each other and it proved to be the most valuable gift of all.
I know I have explained our engagement story before but here is a little refresher. Damien and I had talked about getting married. We knew that sometime soon, we would commit ourselves to one another. I am a tough one to surprise. Some might say I am nosey but I like to think of myself as being very aware of things. Damien had come to visit me in Kirkland during the summer of 1998 and I didn't think that we were going to get engaged during his trip! He had taken my parents and me to dinner and during dinner, asked my parents if they would grant him their blessing to eventually marry me. Still, I didn't think it would be that next day!
We were out and about looking at different church options when we stumbled upon Sacred Heart Church in Bellevue, WA. It was beautiful. Damien thought it would be cute if we tried the aisle out. Yes, he wanted me to see what it felt like to walk down the aisle. At first, I said no. Then he asked again and I complied. I started walking silly down the aisle and he said, 'Come on, like you're walking to me on our wedding day!' The mood got more serious but still, I suspected nothing. Ten minutes earlier I asked him why he was acting strange. I also told him his palms were sweating. I had all the clues right in front of me but I didn't see it coming! Step by step, I approached Damien. I had a few steps to go before I reached the altar and he dropped to one knee and asked me to be his wife. It was extremely romantic and perfect for us.
I thought it would be a great surprise to Damien to plan a little something for him on the eve of our twelfth anniversary. I planned to take the kids and Damien to Mass at Sacred Heart Church and show the kids were it all started! I talked to the kids and told them the significance of our outing. Then, I said that it would be really special during Mass for our whole family to walk up for Communion down the same aisle where Daddy proposed to Mommy! They couldn't wait and they loved that Damien didn't have a clue!
Damien was speechless as we pulled into the parking lot. We haven't been back since the day of the proposal. With tears in this eyes, he kissed me and said, "Thank you." We settled into Mass and the kids were giddy with excitement. They couldn't wait to get communion and walk the aisle. How sweet is that? Matthew did fall asleep during Mass so he will have to relive the moment through photos. Communion came and it was a great family moment. Thirteen years ago, two of us walked down this aisle. Today, six of us walked the aisle. Life is amazing.
After Mass, we went to great French restaurant on Lake Washington which was right near the hotel where we stayed the night after our wedding. The kids loved the whole experience. They loved the nostalgia of it all and got to feel a part of the whole process. I couldn't have been happier with the way the night turned out. It was as if we had all celebrated together. It was perfect. Happy 12th Anniversary, Damien!
Never give up on one another. Take the time to listen, not just talk. Have your partner be your best friend. Make sure you laugh together throughout the day. When times get tough or just seem utterly ridiculous, find the silver lining . . . it will make a great story someday. Respect one another. Try not to take things too seriously. Encourage your partner to do something for themselves (sports, go out with friends, exercise). Make sure you get away without the kids a few times a year. Live young. Talk about the past and remember life as it used to be. Dream about your future and all that it will hold! Don't go into an argument trying to win. Instead, try going into an argument and working on understanding one another better. Show your kids how much you love each other. They will want that for themselves one day. Play pranks on each other. Go to sleep at the same time. Always kiss each other good night and say I love you before you go to sleep. Value all that makes your partner who they are. And above all- love unconditionally. This is what works for us.
Damien and I are ridiculously nostalgic. We love to talk about our courtship. Hands down, it was one of the greatest times of my life. I will never forget the feeling of falling in love and what a wonderful ride that was. I loved when I thought for the first time- this could last forever! I am so lucky to have met Damien when I did. Neither of us were in college just to meet a husband/wife, but we found each other and it proved to be the most valuable gift of all.
I know I have explained our engagement story before but here is a little refresher. Damien and I had talked about getting married. We knew that sometime soon, we would commit ourselves to one another. I am a tough one to surprise. Some might say I am nosey but I like to think of myself as being very aware of things. Damien had come to visit me in Kirkland during the summer of 1998 and I didn't think that we were going to get engaged during his trip! He had taken my parents and me to dinner and during dinner, asked my parents if they would grant him their blessing to eventually marry me. Still, I didn't think it would be that next day!
We were out and about looking at different church options when we stumbled upon Sacred Heart Church in Bellevue, WA. It was beautiful. Damien thought it would be cute if we tried the aisle out. Yes, he wanted me to see what it felt like to walk down the aisle. At first, I said no. Then he asked again and I complied. I started walking silly down the aisle and he said, 'Come on, like you're walking to me on our wedding day!' The mood got more serious but still, I suspected nothing. Ten minutes earlier I asked him why he was acting strange. I also told him his palms were sweating. I had all the clues right in front of me but I didn't see it coming! Step by step, I approached Damien. I had a few steps to go before I reached the altar and he dropped to one knee and asked me to be his wife. It was extremely romantic and perfect for us.
I thought it would be a great surprise to Damien to plan a little something for him on the eve of our twelfth anniversary. I planned to take the kids and Damien to Mass at Sacred Heart Church and show the kids were it all started! I talked to the kids and told them the significance of our outing. Then, I said that it would be really special during Mass for our whole family to walk up for Communion down the same aisle where Daddy proposed to Mommy! They couldn't wait and they loved that Damien didn't have a clue!
| Right after Mass was over at Sacred Heart. |
After Mass, we went to great French restaurant on Lake Washington which was right near the hotel where we stayed the night after our wedding. The kids loved the whole experience. They loved the nostalgia of it all and got to feel a part of the whole process. I couldn't have been happier with the way the night turned out. It was as if we had all celebrated together. It was perfect. Happy 12th Anniversary, Damien!
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